May She Flourish
Space for mothers to reflect on the emotional and identity shifts of motherhood.
Kia ora, I’m Stacey May — the heart behind May She Flourish.
I’m a Registered Social Worker, Certified Matrescence Practitioner, and mother of two, based in Ashburton. My work is grounded in both professional experience and lived understanding of how deeply motherhood can reshape who we are.
Through May She Flourish, I offer gentle, meaningful support for mothers — informed by social work practice and a deep respect for the everyday realities of motherhood.
What is Matrescence
“Matrescence is the process of adapting to a series of changes associated with becoming and being a mother.” — Matrescence NZ
Matrescence describes the emotional, physical, social, and identity shifts that unfold as we move into motherhood. It recognises that becoming a mother is not a single moment, but an ongoing process of adjustment and change.
For many women, having language for matrescence brings clarity to experiences that can otherwise feel confusing or difficult to name. It helps make sense of why motherhood can hold complexity, contradiction, and depth — and why support during this transition can be meaningful.
Working Together
Motherhood reshapes your identity, emotions, relationships, and sense of self. My 1:1 sessions offer a calm, professional space to slow down, reflect, and make sense of what’s unfolding.
Many mothers come feeling changed in ways they can’t quite name — knowing something feels different, but not yet having the words for it. Together, we gently explore the emotions, patterns, and pressures shaping your experience, helping you build clarity, self-understanding, and trust in yourself.
Sessions are available in person in Ashburton or online, and move at your pace, centring what feels most important to you in that moment.
If you’re curious about whether this support is right for you, you’re welcome to get in touch or explore the options below.
