May She Flourish

Honouring Women. Supporting Whānau. Embracing Change.

Personalised support for mothers and whānau navigating the profound transition of matrescence.

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Kia ora, I’m Stacey May — the heart behind May She Flourish.
I’m a Registered Social Worker, Certified Matrescence Practitioner, and mother of two based here in Ashburton.
My work is grounded in both professional experience and personal understanding of how deeply motherhood transforms us.

Through May She Flourish, I combine my background in social work with a deep respect for the everyday realities of motherhood — creating gentle, meaningful support for women and whānau in our community.

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1:1 Support Options

In-Person Sessions Compassionate, professional space to feel heard and supported in a private space.

In-Home Sessions
Gentle, relational care in the comfort of your own home.

Online Sessions
Flexible, accessible support wherever you are.

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What Is Matrescence

“Matrescence is the process of adapting to a series of changes associated with becoming and being a mother.” — Matrescence NZ

Like adolescence, it’s a period of growth and transformation. Understanding matrescence helps us approach motherhood with compassion, less comparison, and a sense of connection in the changes we face.

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Testimonials

  • “Stacey was the nurturing soul I didn’t know I needed - validating my experience, helping me see a way through postnatal depression and reminding me that I was not alone. Stacey introduced me to the concept of matrescence, putting words to the feelings I had been carrying. After eight months of not feeling like myself, Stacey’s words felt like warm, validating hugs and gave me the strength to get through this difficult time.”

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  • “Becoming a first-time mum was both exciting and overwhelming, but having Stacey by my side made all the difference.”

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