About May She Flourish

I'm a Therapist, Registered Social Worker, Certified Matrescence Practitioner, and mum of two based in Ashburton. But more than my qualifications, I'm someone who genuinely gets it.

I came to this work through my own experience of motherhood. The identity shifts, the silent struggles, the feeling that you can't say out loud how hard it really is. I know what it's like to love your babies deeply and still feel lost, unseen, and unsure of who you are becoming. That experience is what drives everything I do.

Mothers who work with me describe me as warm, open, and easy to trust. I will hold space for the hard stuff, sit with you in the messy middle, and never make you feel judged for what you're carrying. I will also be honest with you — gently, but truthfully — because I believe you deserve more than just reassurance.

My work is grounded in evidence based research and professional practice, and shaped by a deep respect for the lived experience of motherhood. Together we unpack and untangle what is going on for you, explore why motherhood feels hard, and create space for the conversations that often go unspoken.

Because you are so much more than just mum. And you deserve to feel that way.

If you're a mother who is ready to be truly seen and heard, I would love to walk alongside you. Book a free connection call and let's talk.

Testimonials

  • “Stacey met with me when I was eight months postpartum. As a first-time māmā with no whānau nearby, little support at home and the constant juggle of a new identity alongside work–life balance, I had a lot on my plate. It wasn’t until I sat down with Stacey that I realised just how much I was struggling.

    She was the nurturing soul I didn’t know I needed - validating my experience, helping me see a way through postnatal depression and reminding me that I was not alone. Stacey introduced me to the concept of matrescence, putting words to the feelings I had been carrying. After eight months of not feeling like myself, Stacey’s words felt like warm, validating hugs and gave me the strength to get through this difficult time. 

    I cannot recommend her enough - so professional, deeply knowledgeable and truly understanding. In such a vulnerable chapter of my motherhood journey, the gift of being truly seen and never judged was profoundly empowering and so rare to come by. 

    Stacey - I will be forever grateful for your ongoing support and guidance. I know that any māmā that may be struggling, will receive the same comforting support and care that I did.”

  • “Becoming a first-time mum was both exciting and overwhelming, but having Stacey by my side made all the difference. She was my constant during a time when everything — who I was, what I did, and even my self-belief — felt like it was shifting.

    I can’t thank her or recommend her enough for the guidance, support, and reassurance she gave me to navigate it all with more confidence. Whatever challenge of motherhood I was facing, Stacey always met it with positivity and compassion, gently reminding me that I was enough, and doing enough, for my little girl.

    I truly believe parenting takes a village — and adding Stacey to mine has lightened my load in ways I’ll always be grateful for. 🩷”

  • The clarity and compassion in your explanation of matrescence really struck a chord. It validated so many of our experiences and gave us a new understanding of ourselves and the mothers we support.

  • It was an absolute pleasure having you join us. The team got so much out of your presentation, and I’ve already had several staff comment on how validating and reassuring it was. Your openness, warmth, and the safe space you created made such a difference.

  • I’m just so grateful to you Stacey. Ashburton (and everywhere!) needs a service like this. Becoming (and continuing to be) a mum is SO HARD and it can be so hard to talk about the challenges without being seen as ungrateful to be a mum. I’d never change my kids for the world, and being their mum is the best gift in the world, but god it’s tough sometimes and it’s so important to talk about it. I’m so grateful for you providing this space and validating how difficult it can be at times and to know we are not alone. You’re so easy to talk to, thank you!!

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  • I felt heard and valued. Stacey was the first person to really listen to me and understand my feelings.